My Favorite Baby Carriers | Leave a comment

By Ashley Devonish | Category: Favorite Lists

   

(1) New Native 100% Organic Cotton Baby Sling $49.99 – I love New Native because it is a simple, no fuss baby carrier, is organic, it folds flat for easy travel and it has tons of cute fabrics to choose from. Also this one allows you to nurse in privacy while your baby is in the carrier. (2) Moby Wrap Baby Carrier $47.95  – The Moby wrap is so versatile and super soft material.  Very secure and easy on the back.  (3) Baby K’Tan Breeze Baby Carrier $76.99 – This carrier is amazing for hot climates. The material is actually mesh so it breathes, keeps you and baby cool.  (4) Mamas and Papas Morph Baby Carrier $139.99 – This posh carrier is super stylish and combines a carrier with a harness. And it comes in really fun colors.  (5) Baby Bjorn Miracle Baby Carrier $184.95 – This miracle carrier might be a splurge purchase but it fits like a dream. The inside of the carrier is lined with super soft material for baby.

 

Types of Baby Carriers and features of each

Wrap

Asian
Style

Figure
8

Adjustable
Ring

Non-
Adjustable
Pouch

Soft
Structured

Amount
of Fabric

Significant

A Little
More

A Little
More

A Little
More

Minimal

A Little
More

Good in
Hot
Weather

Yes

Yes

Yes

Yes

Yes

Yes

Reduces
Back
Strain

Very
Well

Yes

Very
Well

Very
Well

Yes

OK

Versatile
Positions

Very
Well

Yes

Very
Well

Yes

Yes

Somewhat

Adjustable
Size

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

No

Yes

Easy On,
Easy Off

With
Practice

Yes

Yes

Yes

Very
Well

Yes

Discreet
Nursing

Very
Well

Somewhat

Very
Well

Very
Well

Yes

Somewhat

Ideal
Age/Weight
of Child

Preemie-
40 lbs

Children
up to
36/40 lbs

8-35 lbs

Newborn-
35 lbs

Birth-
35 lbs

Children
8-35 lbs

 

5 safety tips to tell if your baby carrier is fit correctly:

  1. Mimics the in arms position-  When a baby is in a baby carrier, he should be in the same position as when he’s being held in your arms. This is the single most important part to any baby carrier. If it is an upright baby carrier, the baby should be snug against your body, high on your chest, and in the same position your arms hold them in. If it is a side laying carrier, the baby should be between your breasts and your belly button, in the same position, and location as when you hold the baby in your arms. If you put the carrier on and let go of your baby and the baby moves away from you, drop downs, or slumps to the side etc, then your carrier is not on correctly.
  1. Close Enough to Kiss - The baby’s head should be close enough to you that you can bend down and easily kiss the top of her head. If you cannot bend far enough to reach the baby, then she is too low. If the baby is too low, there is a higher risk of breathing difficulty, and you may feel that the baby is insecure or may fall out of the carrier. Wearing a baby too low will also cause backaches.
  2. Held Tightly - Make sure your carrier is tight enough you and the baby. When you lean over, or to the side, there should be little to no space between you and your baby. If you feel like you need to hold onto your baby to keep him falling out of the baby carrier, it probably needs to be tightened or you need a smaller size. If a baby carrier is too large, when you lean over, your baby will swing away from you. This will make it harder on your back, and will potentially put your baby in an unsafe position.
  3. Eye to eye contact - Your baby’s face needs to be visible. His head should not be covered with any fabric. You should be able to look at your baby’s entire face when he is in a carrier.
  4. No Back Pain - A carrier should not hurt your back or neck. If this happens then the carrier is not being worn correctly or the carrier is not designed correctly. There are hundreds of baby carriers on the market that can be worn with a baby that is 25+ pounds. Parents who are feeling pressure points or experiencing neck or backaches need to adjust the carrier until it is comfortable or perhaps try different carrier that will work better.

 

I hope you find my favorites and this information beneficial. As usual I welcome all comments and feedback. :-)

 

 

Ashley Devonish

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Posted Friday, July 26, 2013

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Newborn photo shoot | 2 Comments

By Ashley Devonish | Category: Family Focus, Surprize Me!, The Journey of Motherhood

 

Even though my son is 13 months old already, I still love to look at his newborn pictures. They make me smile every time.  I think they turned out great and wanted to share them with everybody. I hope that you enjoy them and will start to get a glimpse into my life.

 

 

 

 

Thank you to Marisa Huggonett for the photography. Let me know how you did your newborn pictures or if you have some creative ideas for newborn pics? Happy Monday!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ashley Devonish

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Posted Monday, July 15, 2013

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A new beginning… | Leave a comment

By Ashley Devonish | Category: Mom 4 Life News & Giveaways, Surprize Me!

 

Hello Mamas!

I wanted to reach out to all of you and share in my journey of taking over Mom 4 Life. I know it will not be an easy task but I am up for the challenge…. well with Heather’s help I know I will make it. :-)

The first few days as the new owner of Mom 4 Life I was very overwhelmed but then I received a quick email from Heather.

 

 

 

My first sale! Instantly a smile came over my face. At that moment I realized that all of the training and headaches involved with owning a new business were totally worth it. So I thank you, Alicia Walker, for being my very first sale. You will never know what that meant to me.

Heather and I have been training daily which has been fun and overwhelming at the same time. But I know that I am learning from the best! We are currently working on getting the inventory shipped to me here in Texas. It has been a huge task and one that I am sorry to say has all fallen on Heather and her husband. As you can see in the pic below, there was a lot of late night packing going on!

 

 

So while the inventory is in transit, please be patient with me in processing orders. I promise as soon as the inventory arrives I will work feverishly to get all orders processed as quickly as possible. 

I am eager to get to know all of you and would like you guys to ask me some questions about me. What do you guys want to know? I am an open book.

 

Also stay tuned for our first sale COMING NEXT WEEK! And don’t forget to follow me on Facebook, Pinterest and Twitter.

 

Ashley Devonish

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Posted Friday, July 12, 2013

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My journey is about to change course | 23 Comments

By Heather Ledeboer | Category: Current Affairs, Mom 4 Life News & Giveaways, The Journey of Motherhood

I sit and I wait for the words to come. I sit some more. My mind begins to run ahead of me tumbling along like a swiftly moving stream, tearing through the memories and swirling though the emotions as effortlessly as water rushes over and around rocks and twigs.

Breathe. Tears, you need to wait, not yet.

I have important news. I want to share it well. I have been on a journey and it is about to change course. It started with the birth of my son Hunter 10 years ago. It began as a simple idea, a tangible plan. I wanted to be at home with my son and help my family financially. I wanted to help out other moms, I wanted to work from my PJ’s. What I got was so much more. Mom 4 Life may have been conceived though my simple vision, but it was you and thousands like you who lovingly helped it grow.

As I mentally retrace the steps back to our humble beginnings, names and faces flood forth: employees like Becca who, in the early days of Mom 4 Life, had a personal key to our home and let herself in during the morning hours in order to begin working at the kitchen table, while I grabbed whatever sleep my young son would allow.

Or the time Melody literally chased our grumpy mailman’s truck down the road in her flip-flops with a bin full of packages that needed to ship out that day. I won’t forget the UPS man who taught Hunter how to do a high five over repeated visits to our front door delivering packages. Or the first time someone called and asked to speak to our advertising department and I looked at myself in the mirror holding the phone in one hand and my toothbrush in the other and said, “Please hold, I’ll connect you” while I spit my toothpaste in the sink and then after a moment picked the phone back up and said, “This is the advertising department, how may I help you?”

I remember when all of our inventory could be stored within one small storage box on my desk and a few years later when it had moved the car out of our garage, taken over our extra closet space and poked out from under our beds.

 

I have memories of the time I was on live TV for a local news station and the baby carrier I was trying to demonstrate tried to make a pretzel out of me.

And I won’t forget the first time I went to the local bookstore to buy an issue of Entrepreneur StartUp magazine and Success Magazine because I had been interviewed in them. They were exciting, fun, challenging times.

Later, as we set and realized goals, we moved our family and our business from Southern California to Northern Idaho. This transition brought about new changes, challenges and personal growth. For the first time we were able to move our business out of our home and into a shop on our property and I was no longer able to pretend that I lived in a reality show with employees mentally weighing in on my parenting skills (or lack thereof).  Our kids still were often part of the fun however and did their part to help pick out video giveaway winners in unusual ways (such as with a game timer or cinematography & throwing rocks and catching wads of paper in a box on the top of my head.)

As our staff grew, I did my best to blend work and fun for a job well done.  We had crazy giveaways involving a staff musical cake walk, Christmas parties, made up Monday songs, our own spoof video from the TV show “The Office”, and occasional celebrations involving food and a local masseuse.

When our son Sawyer was stillborn in 2009, I had the unique and unexpected opportunity to walk through my deepest valley with the prayerful support of the Mom 4 Life community as I chronicled my grief though this blog. I was challenged to be upfront about not only my struggles, but also my faith. In doing so, I discovered the beauty that can be found in the sincere support of both friends and strangers.

In the years that followed, our family continued to grow and I began to sense the Lord’s prompting that the direction of my journey was starting to shift. More recently, as we felt challenged to begin the adventure of homeschooling, we felt certain that it was time to begin seeking out a new mom to take Mom 4 Life into its next stage of growth. It was time to let go. Many prayers were spoken seeking God’s direction and discernment and while uncertainty surrounded us, I was enveloped by peace.

Over the course of several weeks, we were introduced to a mom named Ashley. Ashley recently celebrated her first son’s first birthday. And although the journey of motherhood has been better than she could have ever dreamed, Ashley has found that being involved in a full time career that takes her away from her son has been more difficult than she ever imagined. Ashley began playing around with a simple idea, a tangible plan. She wanted to be at home with her son and help her family financially. She wanted to help out other moms. She wanted to work from her PJ’s. I believe that what she found will end up being so much more.

Today I am lovingly and respectfully passing the Mom 4 Life torch to Ashley Devonish. It is now her baby and over the next few weeks I promise to teach and train her how to parent it well. I believe I am leaving it in good hands and have peace that this step of faith is an important one for me to take.

What happens next for me is part of the mystery. In the last few months, I have been intensely challenged though books such as “Kisses from Katie” and “Anything: The Prayer That Unlocked My God and My Soul” as well as Scriptures such as Ephesians 5:15 that says this to believers of Christ, “Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men [or women] but as wise, making the most of your time because the days are evil. So then do not be foolish but understand what the will of the Lord is.” (Emphasis mine) I believe my job is to simply and humbly make myself openly available to my Heavenly Father and trust that His will for this next stage of life will be made known to me at just the right time. Until then my job is to trust and obey.

Ashley has graciously offered me the opportunity to check in from time to time on the blog so perhaps our paths will cross again here.  I am also still awaiting news from the publishing company that is considering my manuscript so should something develop there you will hear about it here.  In the meantime, I welcome you to find me on Instagram, facebook or Pinterest and I welcome your prayers for both Ashley and myself as we begin new journeys of faith.  Let me conclude by offering:

-My husband the deepest gratitude for not only believing in me from the beginning, but supporting and participating with me along the way (I have memories of you getting out your bow and arrows to help us with a giveaway video, pulling an all-nigher when we launched our updated website and know that you took care of countless bookkeeping details that would have made me want to poke my eyes out with a spoon).

-The mom inventors for entrusting me with your creative products.

-My employees for offering your loyal help and support (despite the fact that I was so undertrained to be a “boss”).

-My friends for standing beside and believing in me.

-My blog readers for praying for me.

-My customers for believing with me that mom inventors really do have something special to offer.

-My Savior and Lord for the opportunity to be stretched and used through Mom 4 Life, to Him be the Glory for ever and ever.

 

Without further ado, it is my honor and pleasure to introduce to you, the new owner of Mom 4 Life, Ashley Devonish:

Hello, everyone! First and foremost, I would like to express my sincerely appreciation to Heather. She has done an amazing job building Mom 4 Life and I could only be so lucky to continue that success. She has allowed me to follow my dreams and for that I will be forever grateful. I know Heather will be successful in her next endeavors and wish her all the best. She is welcome to reach out to you guys via the blog anytime as I know all of you (as I am too) eager to hear her next move and family updates.

I encourage you to check out the About Me section on the website to hear my story and learn more about me.  Below are a few pictures of my son Dominic.

I hope that you will learn to love us and enjoy watching us grow as we embark on this journey.  I plan to share my adventures in learning this business and in being a mom with you each couple of days right here on the blog,  Let’s journey together!

Much love, Ashley Devonish

 

Heather Ledeboer

I am a Christian, wife, mom and the original founder of Mom 4 Life. Now that Ashley owns Mom 4 Life, I am focusing my energies in homeschooling and asking God to use me in other areas.

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Posted Monday, July 1, 2013

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Time To Cry Over Spilled Milk | 2 Comments

By Rachel Steele | Category: The Journey of Motherhood

So maybe I have so many things to do with so little time.  Maybe I just needed one thing that I could control, one thing that I could watch mold and curdle and do nothing about it. 

My husband and I just celebrated our 11 year anniversary.  On our date, we talked about how fast time goes by.  How our oldest just turned 6 and how he can navigate an iphone and we’re not sure we could even find the power button.  How our baby isn’t a baby anymore and how he speaks in sentences with long pauses after every two words.  The truth is, there’s not much we can control in life and the truth is, revealing truth is never present when control and manipulation are.  Time and age cannot be controlled, they continue on regardless of what controls we place on them.  What is sad and funny at the same time,  is that I ultimately resorted to a plastic blue baby bottle full of goats milk just to get a tiny taste of control.

Three months ago, my husband had a newborn goat in his herd that struggled to thrive, after exhausting all efforts, the kid did not survive, and the blue baby bottle full of it’s mother’s milk was left in the fridge.  I attempt to keep a emotional distance from livestock, but I still choke up when a tiny helpless one doesn’t make it.  I decided I wasn’t touching the bottle, and that it was staying there in the fridge until my husband washed it out.  I snapped out a notice, something like,  “You need to wash your goat’s bottle out someday!”  But a few weeks passed by and the bottle still stared at me every time I swung open our illuminated ice box.  So, in order to draw attention to the turning milk, I placed the bottle next to the sink, and every time  I washed dishes, I set it to the side and left it as the single unwashed item. After a few weeks of separating and curdling on the counter, I continued my protest, and moved it to the deck.  I placed it in plain view atop our patio table and let it fizz and fester in the sun’s midday heat for how many days you ask?  Still counting.  Two days ago, while he was assembling our new kitchen cabinets, I asked him if he would make sure he found a good spot for the blue bottle.  I wanted to make sure he saved some space in those nice new cabinets for it.  Obviously, he is not too concerned about this putrid cheesy glop that has hung in the background for months.  And as much as I have wanted to toss it, I wanted to dominate and control the situation by proving my point much, much more.

I’ve decided I need to start crying over spilled milk.  I must let it pour out.  If it always stays safe within sight, with time and age it spoils and ruins.   

Pouring out and spilling over allows the bottle to be washed and filled with fresh new milk.  I held it captive, refusing to clean it for so long, I guarantee it’s going in the trash, because who wants to clean THAT!  Only a miracle of God could make that bottle sparkle again and be worthy of holding a bright white refreshment.  Thank goodness our Lord still performs miracles!

Rachel Steele

Rachel blogs about lessons learned as a wife, mother, daughter, sister, and friend at Dreams of Perfect Design. She likes to share little snipits and snapshots of her everyday adventures, in hopes that maybe, just maybe, it will impact someone else's life.

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Posted Friday, June 21, 2013

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