By Heather Ledeboer | Category: Home Crafts, Kids Crafts | Posted Sunday, December 5, 2010
I recently made two tunics.
That was a new one for me, I have never made a tunic before. Hunter needs one for his upcoming Christmas performance so after locating a sheet for $1.00 at a local thrift store I set to work. Impressed that the process wasn’t nearly as bad as I feared it might be, I realized that I might not be the only mom needing to come up with something like this for upcoming church or school performances. Below was the process I used as well as a few tips I learned along the way. I apologize in advance that I don’t have more photos to show you. I didn’t think of making this into a blog post until I was a good way into the project.
1) Fold your sheet or fabric in half width wise so that the fold is horizontal and the open ends are hanging toward the ground.
2) Hold the fold against your child’s shoulders to determine the width needed. Allow for a little extra room (2 inches or so) on either side of their body.
3) Cut your fabric with one vertical cut to that width. What will result is a long skinny rectangular strip of fabric.
4) With the fabric still folded as it was before, fold it over one more time in half, this time with a vertical fold.
5) At the top corner (on the side with no open edges) ask your child to hold their fist tightly closed on top of the fabric. Use their hand as a guide and carefully cut around it.
6) Open up the fabric to reveal the “head hole” that you just created. Cut it larger if needed. I used my hand for Hunter’s tunic and the hole created was a little larger than I would have liked so it is really best to use your child’s hand as your guide.
7) Now put the tunic over your child’s head and check the length. Cut as desired. Some tunics are full length and others are knee length. Remember to allow for a few extra inches of length if your child will be using a belt (to allow some fabric to be pulled up over the belt and still be the desired length).
At this point your tunic could be finished with no sewing needed. Simply accessorize with a belt. The sides will be open.
If instead you desire closed sides, then proceed with turning the fabric wrong side out and sew a hem along each side.
Take care to allow room for arm holes (simply start your hem below the arm area). I made this mistake the first time around and left no arm hole! In addition you may choose not to hem the sides all the way to the bottom but instead to leave some open flaps on each bottom side. I discovered this trick after realizing that Ashlyn’s looked a bit “penguinish”.
To make a matching headdress simply cut a rectangle from some of your extra fabric (or from a pillowcase) and use a ribbon or hair band to hold in place.
By Angela Gifford | Category: Kids Crafts, Pursuing God | Posted Monday, December 21, 2009
So here I am, sitting in peace and quiet…..at the skating rink. Okay. So it isn’t very peaceful or very quiet. But my kids are busy and happy – which counts for something, right? So with much thank to the Coeur d’Alene Fire Department for their sponsorship of “get in free for 3 cans of food night”, I will take advantage of the opportunity to write out some thoughts.
The thing that has intrigued me the most this Christmas in my time with God is this: Out of the six times the angels brought messages to people in the Christmas story, three of them were to one person! Have you ever caught that? Do you know who it was?
I’ve polled some people this week, and I usually hear the same answer: Mary. Makes sense. After all, isn’t she the most central character to the Christmas story – next to Jesus Himself?
But it wasn’t Mary at all. It was Joseph.
Well, actually, he was pretty central to the whole story. The Scripture says specifically that Mary was chosen…that she was highly favored. Nothing specific like that is said of Joseph. But let’s be real here, mommas. You and I both know (if you’re married like me), that the character of our husbands- and his relationship and walk with God- are central to the strength and direction of our families. When the head of the house isn’t on board, there are great set-backs and obstacles. Are there not?
Think back to the time period Mary lived in. We don’t really know if she and Joseph fell in love, or if their marriage had been arranged since birth, or if Joseph bought her with some cows. Lots of movies have been made and stories have been told, but the Bible doesn’t say. We do know that in that time, however, that the man being in charge wasn’t just an idea or something the highly religious held too. It was the culture. Period. There would be a lot in Mary’s culture that she would have little to no say over. She would not make the bulk of the decisions. She would not decide who went where when or when the family would relocate.
Now, the husband being the head of the house (under Christ) has always been God’s plan. It is a good plan. So can you see how critical it was for Mary to have a good man? How critical it was for the Christ child to grow up in a home that was led wisely?
Joseph was a man of Honor. We know this for at least two clear reasons:
- When Joseph was afraid that Mary had been unfaithful, he had every excuse to divorce her. But he wanted to do it quietly and privately. He didn’t want to make an example of Mary…to embarrass or humiliate her. Even though, in his culture, it was equally embarrassing for the man to be cheated on.
- When Joseph took Mary home as his wife, he didn’t have any sexual relations with her until after Jesus was born. His integrity and self –control puts the stamp of safety on our belief that Jesus was born of a virgin. He restrained himself because He was a man of honor.
Joseph listened to God – and he didn’t just listen, he obeyed…and he didn’t just obey, he obeyed immediately. We see this in his responses to the messages the angels brought.
- When the angel told him to go ahead and take Mary as his wife, he got up in the morning and did it.
- When an angel came and warned him in a dream to escape the Egypt with Mary and Jesus, he got up right then – in the middle of the night – and ran with his family.
- When an angel came again to tell him it was safe to go back to Israel, he again obeyed right away.
I don't know what kind of husband Mary was hoping for when she was a little girl. I remember actually having a notebook where I wrote down the "requirements" for my future husband. Sadly, most of my requirements revolved around beliefs I would require him to have in order for me to marry him. Of course those beliefs would completely line up with mine.
Fourteen years into marriage, I'm understanding the value of desiring a husband who listens to God and does what God asks instead of listening to me and doing everything my way. Brilliant!
I'm so blessed to have a man like that – a man that listens to God and will do whatever He asks, no matter the risk, no matter the cost. He doesn't always know what to do. He doesn't always have all the answers – or a plan (he doesn't like plans at all for that matter). But he does listen to and obey God.
I hope you are blessed with a man like that. If so, I hope you realize what a treasure he is. If you have forgotten, consider spending some time thanking God for him today. Don't forget to tell your husband that you value that part of him, too. He needs to hear that.
If you aren't blessed with a man that listens to and obeys God, I hope you are praying for that. It is so easy to get focused on the peripheral things like jobs and how much time they spend with the family. Those are great things to want and to pray for, but they aren't the critical thing.
If you aren't married, I pray that the biggest thing you will look for in a possible husband is that he listens to and obeys God – for that is the proof of love.
Angela Gifford, Those With Young
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